Turkey Holiday 2017

This year, I spent thanksgiving at my grandpa's cabin. The siblings that live in socal (which now includes me) drove up to Arnold for the weekend to meet up with mom and dad and our brother. My boyfriend joined us in the festivities. The huge dinner was a collaborative effort where we met up with my grandpa's longtime friends and neighbors, Patti and Dan and their daughter Katie.

 We had the dinner at their abode cabin, which is across from the Bent Nail (our cabin). I was especially excited about the mashed potatoes and the yams Patti made. I wasn't able to do much of a gym workout that day, just heavy walking. I had one large helping of all the food, and sauntered back across the street and definitely went to bed early! The stars were pretty at night in the dark sky in the mountains. Lakemont Pines still remains my happy place. It was a great recharge for me and quality time. I really tried to avoid social media as much as I could to decompress. I slept in if I needed to, or walked around, and just relaxed.
The drive home was tedious, taxing, and frustrating. Socal traffic is ugly, especially, during the holidays! I think looking back, it would very well have benefited me to lift up my woes to God rather than displacing it on others in the car lol. The energy was very heavy, but for myself as a whole. It is difficult to be in the same car with the same people for long hours in heavy traffic, and with pending exhaustion and hunger looming. Hard to manage emotions and approach our needs at the same time. My brother blessed my sister and I and drove both ways. I was only responsible for getting to and from Costa Mesa. Snacks were a necessity as were podcasts and an agreeable, calm animal for comfort.
I used Mia as a support and NPR, This American Life, Invisiblia, etc to tune out, or distract myself and my brain in a challenging situation. My growth is so important and I am really grateful I didn't bite on a lot of words, but for the ones I did react to, that I was able to recognize I reacted and apologize for that reaction, and love and again to remember, when a person is upset, they don't love you any less.
All in all, a much needed break/trip/getaway and a huge deposit in my life. God has helped me so much to get this time, maybe not right away when I ask, or when I want, but he knows when I need it most, and also that family is the most important, always. The endgame here is that we can be thankful for what we have and the people in our lives, as for which I am grateful for, as I am grateful for God's love and support for me whether I want his timeline or not!

Some say you need a vacation from a vacation or rest time, I continue to believe, they are right ;); so yucky cough, please go away, and sleep please continue!

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